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For Dads: One More Thing From Which to Protect Your Teen

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A father’s job is never done. You may feel as though you’ve covered the bases with your teen. You’ve talked to her about safety in numbers, being a defensive driver, and the importance of choosing friends wisely. Still, there are more bases to cover.

According to a study by the Family Online Safety Institute, 51 percent of teens say they are very concerned about their identity being stolen. Your teenager is the perfect victim for someone who needs a fresh start because she is likely to have clean credit and an unblemished criminal record. For a criminal, stealing your child’s identity allows him to open new credit cards, buy things online, even rent a home and connect utilities, all using the information stolen from your teenager.

The fact that there are so many ways to steal an identity is the primary reason it is so difficult to prevent, says the experts at Lifelock. Prior to the Internet, it was a common practice for a thief to assume the identity of someone who had died, a scheme called “ghosting.” Today, it’s as simple as gathering as much information as possible from public forums and stolen bits of information.

As a father, your job is to educate your teenager and help her come up with rules for protecting her precious identity.

Personally Monitor

In Charge, a group dedicated to helping military members and their families with financial decisions, says that you should monitor your teenager’s online activity. She probably won’t like it, but look for instances in which she has provided too much personal information. Instruct her that if she is making a party announcement on Facebook, she should not include her address for random strangers to see. Tell her to leave her birth year off of any social media and to never use her entire name. For example, she might refer to herself as Daniella D, rather than Daniella Marie Davis. The less information an identity thief has, the more difficult it will be for him to assume her identity.

Learn to Ask Why

No matter who asks for your child’s social security number, find out how they are going to use it. This might include a doctor’s office, school, or insurance agent. Make sure that you know her social security number is serving a specific purpose and that it will be protected.

Personal Information

Find out what your child carries on her person. The National Crime Prevention Council says that identity thieves routinely steal purses or billfolds in search of personal information. Make sure your child does not carry her social security card, checkbook, or any other document that includes information that can be used to assume an identity. Identity thieves need only your child’s name, address and social security number to convincingly pretend they are her.

Talk to Your Teen

Perhaps the most important thing you can do to protect your teen from identity thieves is to talk to her. Explain how easy it would be for someone to steal her identity, suggests Stanford Federal Credit Union. Tell her how the misuse of her personal information can haunt her for years. Any bad credit the theives rack up will show up on her records, forcing her to go through the process of cleaning the mess up. Tell her how important it is to keep identifying information to herself and that she should never give out information over the phone or fill out a form before speaking with you.

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Phil Robertson, His Beliefs and A&E, Their Beliefs

No matter how you slice it, Phil Robertson and A&E have had some problems as of late.  Right or wrong, gay or straight.  This comes down to whether we have the right to say how we feel and what we believe in.   Personally, I like Phil Robertson, His Beliefs and his whole family.  I have been watching Duck Dynasty for sometime now and I’m a huge fan.  There just isn’t a lot of shows that the family can sit down to and watch anymore.  This is a great show with a great message.

Here’s the latest on the story.

“Duck Dynasty” patriarch Phil Robertson defended himself Sunday as “a lover … not a hater” but doubled down on the anti-gay remarks that got him suspended from his popular reality TV show.  He even suggested that Jesus Christ can save gay people.
“I love all men and women. I am a lover of humanity, not a hater,” Robertson, 67, told a small Bible study group at his church in West Monroe, La.  But the bearded leader of the duck-hunting Robertson clan surrendered no ground in his family’s battle against critics who disagree with his view of homosexuality, “I will not give or back off from my path,” the evangelical Christian said in his 45-minute speech, according to MailOnline.

The comments were Robertson’s first since his suspension Wednesday by the A&E Network over his homophobic ruminations in GQ magazine.  The duck-call-maker said his outlook comes from the Bible.  “Common sense says we are not going to procreate the human race unless we have a man and a woman,” Robertson said, according to MailOnline. “From the beginning Jesus said, ‘It is a man and a woman.’ Adam was made and Eve was made for this reason.”

The “Duck Dynasty” star said his goal is to enlighten his critics.  “I am just reading what was written over 2,000 years ago,” he reportedly said. “Those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom. All I did was quote from the scriptures, but they just didn’t know it.”

He insisted Jesus can deliver gay people from sin, MailOnline said: “Jesus will take sins away, if you’re a homosexual.”

Wearing his signature camouflage suit, Robertson blasted his detractors.  “I have a degree from Louisiana Tech. But this week I have been called an ignoramus.”  “Jesus Christ was the most perfect being to ever walk this planet and he was persecuted and nailed to the cross, so please don’t be surprised when we get a little static,” Robertson added.

The flap started when Robertson told GQ that “a vagina — as a man — would be more desirable than a man’s anus” and compared homosexuality to bestiality.

Louisiana Lt. Gov. Jay Dardenne said Sunday that the state will find the Robertson family a new home on TV if it and A&E are unable to make up.

How do you feel about the situation between Phil Robertson and A&E.   What’s your stance on the subject?  Share your opinon!

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The Diverse Christmas Traditions of Europe (Infographic)

Christmas comes but once a year, and when it does, the festive experience looks very different depending on which country you are in. Everything from the food to the decorations right down to the guy who gives out the presents will vary depending on if you are in France, Finland or Italy.

 

Did you know that in Finland people roll around in the snow on Christmas Day before hitting the sauna? Or that, in Norway, if you find an almond in your bowl of julegrøt (Christmas porridge), you will win a marzipan pig? Or that in the Netherlands Santa doesn’t arrive by sleigh but on a steamboat from Spain?

 

If the answer is no to any of the above, or if you are simply as interested in the cultural differences around the world as I am, then you might want to check out this interactive Christmas infographic from Expedia.co.uk.

 

It shows the various customs and traditions around Europe, giving you a glimpse into a typical living room in each country. Click on the objects in each room to discover the festive foods, decorations and celebrations that make every Christmas unique. You can even learn how to say “Merry Christmas” in thirteen different languages!  So click the link pic below and enjoy learning the Diverse Christmas Traditions of Europe!

 

Click on the map to start your adventure now: 

diverse-christmas-traditions-europe

 

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Parents…Beware of Hitchhiking Bed Bugs

 

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The blood-sucking pests known as the bed bug have been invading house, home and shelters throughout history. According to the Illinois Department of Public Health, their numbers have increased and are on the rise. Since they are attracted to heat and carbon dioxide which our bodies produce, animals and humans are their favorite source for feeding. They love to find new hosts in high-traffic areas by climbing aboard and taking a ride home with your kids.

Scientifically, bed bugs are known as Cimex lectularius (Cimicidae), which are small, wingless insects that feed by hematophagy (solely on the blood of warm-blooded animals). Bed bugs feed in the wee hours of the morning right before sunrise to stay undetected. They quietly and painlessly suck your blood while you sleep, by injecting you with saliva to increase blood flow and to ensure you don’t feel a thing once bitten.

Unwanted Pest Guests

Bed bugs could be hitchhiking a ride home on your children’s backpacks or clothing. Entomologist Jeff White of Bed Bug Central explains that cases of bed bugs in grade school and college dormitories rarely occur but have seen an increase mainly in schools located in metropolitan areas. You can have the cleanest house in the neighborhood and still be a victim of these parasites. But there are some simple steps parents can take to prevent a potential infestation at home when your children return from school:

  • Place your child’s backpack in a large smooth Tupperware container each time they come home from school. Bed bugs have a hard time crawling on smooth surfaces.
  • Purchase special encasement bedding that will provide protection against your kid’s mattress and box spring from bed bug infestations. It also will help you detect traces of bed bugs easier with the naked eye.
  • Green cleaning laundry bags will keep your kid’s school clothes separated from other linens while trapping and killing any potential bed bugs from spreading to other rooms in your home.
  • Inspect your child’s room for bed bugs by examining their bedding, box spring and bed frame thoroughly especially when school is in session.

Next Steps in the Bed Bug Battle

Bed bugs only feed for three to five minutes in the early hours before sunrise, and it takes up to several days before you see skin irritation marks from the constant biting that goes on while you’re asleep. If you notice any red spots or numerous marks that mimic mosquito bites, or if your child complains of constant itching, bed bugs may be the culprit. A dermatologist can diagnose and treat this irritation with a cream that will prevent children from scratching the bites, which can lead to infection. When bed bugs are in your home, it’s time to call a professional. Check out bed bugs at Orkin.com to get an overview of facts, identification techniques and ways to control this unwanted pest before, during and after your home is invaded.

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Teen Independence: 5 Vital Skills She’ll Need in the Real World

 

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How much easier life in general would be if the you right now could go back and advise the “teen-aged” you. Although there is no going back for adults, you can do your part to make life’s road a little smoother for your teen by encouraging her to be independent. In your eyes, she might still be your baby girl, but in a few short years she’ll no longer be a minor. Helping her develop essential skills to live and get along with the other humans in the world will save you both some heartache and teach your teen to have some Teen Independence.

In Case of Emergency

You’ve always been there to take charge and pick up the pieces during crises, but your teen needs to learn how to cope with emergencies on her own. The Washington Post advises parents to provide teenagers with a list of things they’ll have to provide the other driver if they’re in an automobile accident, such as name, address, driver’s and license plate numbers and contact and insurance information. The Post also recommends walking your teen through the insurance portion of her next doctor’s visit, so she understands billing procedures and co-payments as well as what insurance information the doctor’s billing department requires.

Keep it Clean

Keeping her room clean is a good start on housekeeping skills, but when your teenager is out on her own and looking for apartments for rent, she’ll need to know more than how to change the sheets on her bed. Moms Everyday (2) says to stop cleaning up after your teen and show her how to do her own laundry as well as keep things tidy and organized. A teenager is capable of housekeeping on her own and should be doing those things for herself in preparation for life on her own.

Use Your Words

Communication skills are vital but, as All Parenting points out, texting has taken the place of interpersonal communicating. Your teen will be the one who has to contact her landlord, doctor and other business professionals when she no longer lives at home. You should help her develop the skills necessary to schedule appointments, gather information and resolve issues before that responsibility is all on her plate. Guide your teenager through calling her dentist to ask for information and to schedule her next appointment. Steer her through etiquette and courteously inquiring about information.

Fiscal Responsibility

Involve your teen in the day-to-day aspects of your household budget. Make her aware of all the expenses she’ll have to fit her paycheck around. Have her sit with you when you pay the utility bills, the mortgage and insurance. Let her make up a grocery list and then accompany you to do the shopping. Encourage her to open a checking account and help her balance it the first month or two before letting her go it on her own. Help her master fiscal responsibility before she actually has to be fiscally responsible.

Self Management

If your teen relies on you to be the snooze alarm, she needs some work in the time management department. When she’s on her own, she’ll have to get to work on time, pay her rent on time and will have deadlines for college course work or projects for her job. Make sure she learns how to be responsible for managing and organizing her time.

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