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Title: SAHD length of time
Post by: dewman28 on September 01, 2009, 02:29:04 AM
I was wondering about this. Help me out and let me know. It's been 5+ years for me and I couldn't be happier. Thanks dads
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: Frobozz on September 01, 2009, 07:03:56 AM
I've been a SAHD/W(ork)AHD for over 2 years.   
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: Bill on September 01, 2009, 10:23:41 AM
Yeah I've been basically a stay at home for 3 years.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: JacksDaddy on September 01, 2009, 11:00:23 AM
Only 4 months for me right now, but I don't see it stopping anytime soon.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: joetekken on September 30, 2009, 05:31:52 PM
Well it be 7 years in Nov. But get more money from the VA and my retirement pay that what the jobs are paying now days so am happy and the wife is to  :approve:
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: joseph1986 on October 01, 2009, 02:08:46 AM
7 months for me
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: AtHomeDaddy on October 04, 2009, 09:41:47 PM
7 1/2 years for me. 

But I just hit the sweet spot, both kids in school all day and the wife still works too many hours to be home for all the kid stuff, so I won't be ending my SAHD gig any time soon.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: joetekken on October 08, 2009, 03:37:36 PM
Its gets better just wait until they go off to collage :biggrin:
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: dj_hallucn8 on November 19, 2009, 08:47:06 PM
I have been at home now for a little over a year, might go 2 more years but I kinda want to go back to work just to make extra money, I have a side computer repair business but it has been slow sice August.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: Mini Man on November 19, 2009, 11:48:03 PM
Almost 3 years here as a SAHD/full-time night & weekend job/full-time college student. It'll probably continue at least a few more years, possibly until I have my Doctorate, and who knows how long that'll take. Other than working weekends, it isn't too bad. I get to be home with the kids during every spring break, and anyone who knows me well enough to know about my job knows that I have it pretty good. I just wish the wife and I had some more 'us time' on occasion.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: Spectre on March 06, 2010, 08:39:29 PM
I have been a SAHD for around 3 years, it will remain the same until my youngest is in 1st grade.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: dewman28 on March 09, 2010, 05:54:27 PM
I have been a SAHD for around 3 years, it will remain the same until my youngest is in 1st grade.

thats what my plan was except we got prego just as I was looking for a job/school good luck to you!
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: Spectre on March 10, 2010, 07:22:42 AM
I have been a SAHD for around 3 years, it will remain the same until my youngest is in 1st grade.

thats what my plan was except we got prego just as I was looking for a job/school good luck to you!
thanks.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: jodost on March 31, 2010, 04:47:16 AM
Until my kids were in school full time I was a ahd for over 10 years. Still the best job I ever had.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: GirouxZone on January 23, 2012, 08:26:33 PM
I just hit 3 1/2 years. The original plan was a 6 month leave of absence from work. That became a year. Then two years. Then it was until my daughter hits kindergarten. Recently my wife was laid off, so I'm looking for at least part time work to earn some money. Hopefully my wife finds something soon to replace her old job.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: Frobozz on January 23, 2012, 08:34:30 PM
I just hit 3 1/2 years. The original plan was a 6 month leave of absence from work. That became a year. Then two years. Then it was until my daughter hits kindergarten. Recently my wife was laid off, so I'm looking for at least part time work to earn some money. Hopefully my wife finds something soon to replace her old job.

Fingers crossed that you guys find something soon. I was out of work last year for about 4 months. It sure does suck.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: Keith on January 23, 2012, 08:39:06 PM
I just hit 3 1/2 years. The original plan was a 6 month leave of absence from work. That became a year. Then two years. Then it was until my daughter hits kindergarten. Recently my wife was laid off, so I'm looking for at least part time work to earn some money. Hopefully my wife finds something soon to replace her old job.

Sorry to hear about her job.  I really hope that you guys find a job.  It's gotta be extremely tough on you.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: Ramblin' Dad on January 24, 2012, 01:21:39 PM
No job, that does sound familiar. Sorry to hear about that. I was lucky and was only jobless for about two months, but even then the job I did find was 1/3 less pay than what I made, so it's better but not the best. Good luck to your wife on finding a job soon, know it must be hard on the family.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: GirouxZone on February 10, 2012, 09:10:35 PM
And now for a situational update. Well, my wife has been interviewing in quite a few places, and it looks like at least one will make an offer. It appears the money will be adequate, and while she'll have to commute 1 1/2 hours each way 2 days per week, the other days she can work at home. So, minor tradeoffs, but there's a lot of flexibility there. Another company she'll be meeting with next week, and they want to take us to dinner as well, so I'm thinking that's going pretty well too. If all else fails, she can work with some guys she used to know at her old company that have set up their own shop. In that case she'd be earning whatever work she brings in - no set salary. Either way, my old company will talk with me in a week and I'll see if I can set up the part time gig with them. So, the 9 month severance may just end up being bonus to pay down the mortgage, which would be sweet. Plus, our daughter makes out well too, since we'll both get enough time with her. I'll keep you posted.....
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: Keith on February 10, 2012, 09:19:58 PM
That's great news!   I really hope everything works out great!
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: GirouxZone on February 10, 2012, 09:23:38 PM
Thanks! Now I just have to deal with my deteriorated software skills, get over my trepidation over maybe being in the workforce again, and learn how to once again shave every day.....
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: Keith on February 11, 2012, 08:23:04 PM
You can do it, no problem!    But, you don't have to shave everyday, you can be like me and just shave once a week.   :)
Title: SAHD length of time
Post by: Skeny on February 11, 2012, 11:29:58 PM
You can do it, no problem!    But, you don't have to shave everyday, you can be like me and just shave once a week.   :)

Just saying. :-P
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: Keith on February 12, 2012, 06:45:23 AM
LOL     I have never let mine get like that.    I shave when it really starts to bother me.   :)
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: TrekkerDad on March 01, 2012, 10:56:57 AM
Technically, I've been at home for almost 3 1/2 years, but for much of that time, I was recuperating from cancer and/or doing work in my upstairs office as a contract researcher. I would just fill in for my wife, who telecomutes but frequently travels. When my son was born, 15 months ago, I had set it up (at her request) for her to have 3 months of maternity leave. She was begging to go back to work at 6 weeks. After that we started seriously exploring the option of me being a full-time SAHD. Best decision I ever made! I've been "on the clock" as she calls it for the last year, full-time. I never imagined a job could be this fun.

Although, I will admit, after the last week with my wife out of town, I'm ready for a freakin' vacation.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: GirouxZone on March 02, 2012, 10:59:08 AM
So my wife accepted a new job offer yesterday. Way more control at her new place, a $30K raise, and we still have 7 months of severance pay left. All in all, it's one big "Suck it!" to her old firm! Haha.

Anyway, now the pressure is a bit off of me now as far as finding work. Had an interview at my old place and we're going to check with some people there about a potential part time gig, but at least now I don't HAVE to take it. More likely I'll be setting up my own home business, and continuing as a full time SAHD.

And posting here more, hopefully.

Dual unemployment was quite the roller coaster. Glad it only went for 2 months.
Title: Re: SAHD length of time
Post by: GirouxZone on March 02, 2012, 11:04:04 AM
The weirdest part of my wife being unemployed was that when she was home all the time, it underscored just how much of a routine me and my daughter had. All my "systems" we're disturbed by having a 3rd person around.