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kids stuck in the middle! whats best?
« on: February 25, 2009, 09:13:45 PM »
This is a topic that I feel I can offer some advice to anyone who wants to listen.
I don't post hardly ever, and at that its about video games. haha
So a quick run down from start to finish.
This is very touchy and every situation is unique. So I hope this helps.
My baby's mama and I split up a year after our son was born. coming from a broken home myself i felt I had to do whatever I could to save the relationship, and failed. the effort was too little too late.
I was crushed for the first year. I tried to drink the problems a way and got myself a DUI. No one was hurt thankfully. there wasn't even an accident or anything. i was lucky on that aspect.
part of my required task was an alcohol class. 106 hrs to be exact. during that time I was introduced to a book called choice theory. the concepts were applied in class and i took an interest. I read the book and was able to change my attitude (didn't change who i am) and the way I handled the ex and the way we raised our son. I am not in to self help books. i am a fan of psychology and since it was based on that, i read it.
i am fortunate, for I do not have battles with her on how we raise our son.
instead we work as a good team. We had plenty of battles before I stepped up. it did take time and patience.
 I read something somewhere that really stuck.
the best thing parents can do for their kids is love each other.
our good relationship is the most important thing in his life. getting there is the hard part sometimes, and if you need someone to talk to or any advice, please feel free to ask. I am here for who ever

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Re: kids stuck in the middle! whats best?
« Reply #1 on: February 25, 2009, 10:25:46 PM »
Thanks Papa

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Re: kids stuck in the middle! whats best?
« Reply #2 on: February 25, 2009, 11:00:50 PM »
Thanks Papa, great post.  And great advice about what to teach the kids

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